Tangled Tree Thoughts: The Important of Being Earnest

  It's been forever ago since I've read the Importance of Being Earnest, but from what I do remember it was about mistaken identities. I figured for those who are trying to research their family histories, I would walk you through some past and present struggles with names that have and are perplexing me.
Grandma Margaret Emma Talady is a problem for me.  For one thing, in the census records I have for her, she goes by either Margaret or Emma, or Emily.  So, the obituary I found the other day helped confirm that she was indeed the Emma Taladay that was married to Civil War soldier Frederick Kariger.  It also confirmed that she was born in Connecticut, Hartford to be exact.  Now, that has always been a question for me.  How she jumped from CT to Will County, IL (Chicago area) was a problem - not unheard of, but a stretch.  So after I found that I started searching anew on the internet for fresh ideas.  I found a site for Tolliday/Talady researchers that had census records for people by that surname (and all variations) for all time periods and states.  I found a Henry Toloday living in Licking County, Ohio with a daughter "M.E." right age for my Margaret Emma.  Hmmmm....  Ok, so I do some further searching.  There is a Hartford township in Licking County.  Now, I've run across this before.  According to family lore, ggg-grandpa Lafayette Mauzey was supposed to have been born in Richmond, Virginia.  Turns out, his family was FROM Virginia and he was born in Richmond, MO.  Pretty easy explanation - the town that is reported is assumed to be the state capital of the state the family was originally from.  Since then I've learned to broaden my searching.  After searching all evening I finally find that Henry Toloday ended up in Blackford County, Indiana where his known son Laban lived in the town of Hartford.  More interesting is that Laban's first son was named William Henry, which is what Grandma Margaret Emma's first son was named.  To add another level of intrigue, Henry's known daughter Nancy's first son was named William H.  Ok, that's just downright weird now.  Circumstantial.  Without a will in hand, I'm stuck.  It all fits - kind of.  Sometimes that's what we genealogists have to go on and sometimes be content with until we find that final nail in the coffin so to speak:)
  Another mystery that has re-emerged is also on Hubby's family.  His ggg-grandma Mary Ida Lopossa (pronounced Low-possee) Patrick.  Now she was born about 1865 in Indiana (census info).  The problem was and is that brothers Jacob and Joseph Lopossa both had daughters named Mary born about that time.  According to all info I've found Hubby's Mary was the daughter of Jacob.  I'd been tracking down a lead and contacted a gal whose George also was the son of Jacob.  She told me that our Mary was not the daughter of Jacob.   Ok... I go back to the drawing board.... It all brings me back to this picture...

Joseph Lopossa family, Mary is front row 2nd from the left

  Although this picture is not in my possession and I have not seen an exact date for it, I doubt that the Mary in it is ours.  Ours died pre-1901 in the flu epidemic along with her husband - this is according to family lore as well as some guardianship papers dated 1901.  The woman in this picture looks too old to be about 35 which either of the Marys would have been ca. 1900.  So,  I think I'm secure in believing that Jacob is our Mary's dad.  Do I know definitively?  No.  But, I'll be content for now anyway:)
 

Field Trip Friday: Orphans and the CCC

  So what do orphans and the CCC have in common?  Nothing except the Orphan Train Museum in Concordia had a traveling Smithsonian exhibit called "How we Worked" and their museum as part of that had a special Civilian Conservation Corps exhibit of which the CCC in Kansas is Daddy's speciality.  We used the opportunity as our next Friday field trip:) 

in front of the museum

  Nana (Daddy's mom) had the day off so she came on our adventure with us, which was wonderful!  I had the kids read up on the Orphan Train on the way up for some background.  When we got there, we watched a short intro video - turns out that the Concordia museum is the the main depository for Orphan Train records, etc... - go Kansas! :)  When we got into the actual depot, we all scattered: Daddy to his CCC display, and the kids to the kids area, Nana and I just wandered where we could. 

the kids room

CCC display

  I was so impressed with the museum.  The displays were interactive and they had a scavenger hunt for the kids to fill out along with other activity pages. 
  Our next stop was the Cloud County Historical Museum where they had a local CCC collection on display in the Annex & then a research area in the main building.  While Daddy conversed with the museum volunteers about  CCC things, the rest of us investigated the vast collections. 

the coolest artifact for the kids was an antique funhouse mirror!

Margaret Emma Talady Kariger Grinstead obit.

Seriously, I've been to a ton of local museums and this was the biggest and had the largest variety I have ever seen.  Now, I couldn't let Daddy have all the fun and since his ggg-grandma was buried in Miltonvale, in Cloud County, I tried to find her obituary.  Success!  Not alot of new information, but it did verify some info that I didn't have good sources on.  A note about copying obituaries: always make note of the paper and date you got it from (either get it in the copy, or write it on the side or back).
  Our last stop was the site of Camp Concordia a prisoner of war camp for German soldiers during WWII.  Bubby had seen a display at the museum and we made his day by going to see the buildings that are still standing.  It was too cold and windy to stay long, but we did get a picture.

Camp Concordia tower

This was one of the best field trips ever!  Something for everyone! :)